@”Sum guy”: It has to do with communication, which many people believe is pretty darn important to polyamory.

On the rare occasions when I hear Kyeli’s voice, I’m always so confused because I so rarely actually aurally hear her voice. In fact, I think I’ve only ever heard it once before, and that was when I called her on her birthday last year and heard it for about five seconds. So in my imagination she has a much deeper voice than she does on that recording, and Pace always has a slightly higher-pitched voice in my imagination than she does when I actually hear her voice, so I kept getting confused who was talking even though I know the real-life differences in your voices!

Voices are fun.