Comments on: Be yourself.

By: Elly

Elly — Fri, 01 May 2009 20:52:34 +0000

Awwww. I really like that you had the courage to post tihs. It is very honest.

*hugs*

By: No more Freaky Thursdays. | Pace and Kyeli

No more Freaky Thursdays. | Pace and Kyeli — Fri, 01 May 2009 15:32:35 +0000

[...] no more videos. As Pace said in her beautiful, moving video on Tuesday, this whole video thing has been hard. For me, it was hard because I’m a jeep [...]

By: Pace

Pace — Fri, 01 May 2009 14:22:20 +0000

@Tanya: Thanks! (: @Hayden: There's been a lot of spirited debate in the comments. It was pretty stressful for me. It was part of the "revolutionary" package that I had in my head, but in the "new revolutionary" idea, it'll be less about spirited debate and more about finding our Right People. Thanks for asking. (: @Christine: Thank you so much!!! (:

By: Christine Martell

Christine Martell — Fri, 01 May 2009 06:02:45 +0000

Pace,
This video is amazing, powerful, inspiring and oh so much more. And yes, I agree the hair works also.

By: Hayden Tompkins

Hayden Tompkins — Fri, 01 May 2009 03:21:25 +0000

I absolutely love your honesty on this, and I can really feel you on where your coming from. My only question, did someone say something to you?

By: Tanya

Tanya — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 19:56:36 +0000

I agree with every comment in here. Plus, your hair isn’t just cute, it’s fun. :)

By: Victoria Brouhard » Blog Archive » Being Me, Not a Metaphor

Victoria Brouhard » Blog Archive » Being Me, Not a Metaphor — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 13:54:14 +0000

[...] I saw this amazing video post from Pace. She talks about how, in her desire to be a revolutionary, she realized it wasn’t [...]

By: Pace

Pace — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 05:21:51 +0000

Thanks, Kristina. I definitely do struggle with letting my defenses down, and I hugely appreciate your comment.

You know, it’s like love in another way, too. When you try too hard, you fail at finding love. But when you stop trying so hard, love finds you.

By: Kristina B

Kristina B — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 03:29:12 +0000

You know, i’m in group therapy (which I highly recommend). It’s an intimacy group for people who struggle letting their defenses down. About 8/10 of the time, the people in the group behave the way you behaved in the first videos which is not terrible but it’s more of a performance than an interaction. And, basically, it’s the reason we’re in the group. Because we are scared to stop performing, and it has caused us trouble in our lives. Anyway, the other 2/10 of the time, we let our guard down and we’re brave and present and not performing. Inevitably, everyone falls a little in love with whoever is doing that, because apparently when we are raw and authentic we are at our most attractive/connect-able. I am not talking about romantic love, here. I’m talking about the kind of love that starts revolutions. :P So, yeah, anyway, good one Pace. It’s hard work, but it’s worth it.

By: Pace

Pace — Wed, 29 Apr 2009 02:45:05 +0000

@nw: Thanks. That means a lot to me.

@Victoria: *huge hugs*! I’m so ridiculously happy that this spoke to you in such a way. oxoxox!