Book Bonanza Wednesday! Chapter 27: Reflection

Each week we give away the next chapter of our book for free. We hope you enjoy it! Here’s this week’s chapter:

Chapter 27: Reflection

Communication is a tricky process, fraught with the peril of misunderstanding. Successful communication requires four separate steps. To illustrate, imagine that you and your friend Daniel are having a conversation; Daniel talks and you listen.

Step 1. Daniel has a concept that he wants to express. He translates this into words.

Step 2. He speaks the words.

Step 3. You hear the words.

Step 4. Based on your interpretation of the words you heard, you make your best guess at the concept Daniel had in Step 1.

Any one of these four steps can go wrong. Step 1 could go wrong if Daniel fails to capture his intent accurately with the words he chooses. Step 2 could go wrong if he accidentally stumbles over his words. Step 3 could go wrong if you mishear the words he spoke. Step 4 could go wrong if you incorrectly guess Daniel’s intent or meaning.

With all these possibilities for error, it’s a wonder successful communication ever happens at all! One way to make communication more successful is to add a Step 5: Reflection.

…and here’s the rest:

• Read The Usual Error ebook, Chapter 27: Reflection (web page)

Related posts:
• Book Bonanza Wednesday! Chapter 32: Rephrasing things positively
• Book Bonanza Wednesday! Chapter 19: Meta-communication
• Book Bonanza Wednesday! Chapter 23: The only way out is through
• Book Bonanza Wednesday! Chapter 33: Teasing
• Book Bonanza Wednesday! Chapter 15: What did you intend?

Have you read our book, The Usual Error? It teaches you how to solve communication issues with compassion and understanding, how to get rid of needless conflict from your life, how to make your relationships smoother, and how to generally be happier. Also, the illustrations are super cool. (: You can buy it on Amazon or read it for free online.